"You may feel the same way. But I have good news for you: Your success does not depend on the outcome of your stepmothering efforts. Your success depends only on those things you can control—your attitudes, words, and actions (including the choice to accept God's grace and love). Your success as a stepmother does not—indeed, cannot—depend on those things you can't control, including the actions of your stepchildren. You can be a successful stepmother regardless of how they think, act, or speak. If stepchildren do turn out well and you have a good relationship with them, you can consider that an added bonus."
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